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February 27, 2005

film festival and glove etiquette

I think I'm going to stick to my habit of blogging occasionally but in depth. This gives me time to reflect on what I've been doing and craft some witty prose.

The pressure's been building to this week, by which I need to complete my conference paper and do two presentations. I'll give links to these things once it's appropriate for me to put them online. For now, a brief blog posting before returning to work.

Despite the impending deadlines, I did take a bit of time to relax this weekend. Went to the КИНОТЕАТР.DOC film festival (sorry, website only in Russian) and saw some short films by unknown young Russian directors. Good stuff. Took some pictures that didn't turn out at all—I'm having a terrible time getting night shots to turn out. Taught Аня, a bank lawyer and friend of Андрей's I met at the club, how to ice-skate.

I really wish I had snagged the first front-page image on the New York Times website of Bush and Putin meeting in Bratislava. When I looked at the site again, they had already put up a more dignified shot. In the original, Bush had his a big grin and was grasping Putin on the shoulder, and Putin looked at stone-faced as ever. I have a similar one from Chris that was taken a few seconds later, once Bush calmed down.

Perhaps you read in any number of sources that both George and Laura violated European etiquette by not removing their gloves when shaking hands outdoors. Everyone, including the observing media, noticed the faux pas. Funny because I had just realized that I myself made this mistake the day before that I didn't remove my glove when shaking Аня's hand. She assured me she wasn't offended. Now I'm trying to think of how many other hands I've shaken (or is it "shook"?) with my glove on.

Posted by kshawkin at February 27, 2005 01:49 PM

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Poor George and Laura! :)))) But I always thought that only men are supposed to remove their gloves, so maybe it's only George... Anyway, I'm sure no one notices such things now, unless you're a president :)) Besides, in Russia it isn't very common for women to shake hands at all, except for formal occasions. I think it's different from both Europe and the US. That is, if, for example, a guy is introduced to me and some male friend of mine in an informal situation, he will definitely shake hands with the other guy, but probably not with me (just saying "nice to meet you" is enough); if a girl is introduced, she will not shake hands with anyone. But maybe this is changing now, as people are becoming more westernized.

Posted by: Olga_Kh at February 28, 2005 12:38 PM

Kev, your prose is as witty as ever. And I didn't know you could ice skate.

As for the glove thing, well, dag nab it and yeeeHAW! In Texas, we call shaking hands with our gloves on "shaking hands." > Shaking hands without a glove on is a way to spread bio-terrorism, and then al-Quaida would win. Either you shake hands with your gloves on with us, or you shake hands without your gloves on against us.

(To the casual reader, please note I am neither from Texas, nor do I believe one should always shake hands with his or her gloves on.)

Posted by: Jou at February 28, 2005 11:55 PM

On shaking hands: There isn't total equality in the sexes in the US either. Cross-gender handshakes, so to speak, are universal in the workplace but not as common in social situations.

Here I'm never quite sure what to do when meeting a woman, so I usually let her make the first move. (Hmm, that seems to be my general strategy with women, actually!) The handshake can go along with a kiss on the cheek, which is a habit rarely found among Americans, especially those of my generation.

This is all good material for a message on perceptions of feminism in America, which I'm preparing now in time for March 8.

Jou, I found that ice skating in Russia is more difficult because rinks here are usually outdoors, with a section of a park flooded and allowed to freeze. Skating uphill is a bit of a challenge. You also need to watch out for obstacles like trees and piles of snow.

Posted by: Kevin at March 1, 2005 11:33 AM

On equality and shaking hands, strange that you say that because it seems to me that Americans always want to shake your hand when you meet them - and as I'm not quite used to it, I always hesitate for a split second before accepting the handshake, which must look really idiotic :)) I like the idea of equality, but it's so hard to change your ways, like not to expect men to hold the door for you, and so on :)))

Posted by: Olga_Kh at March 1, 2005 02:01 PM

Well, Americans do always want to shake your hand, but travel guides to the Northern Europe (including Holland and maybe Germany) always tell you not to be surprised if women and even children offer to shake your hand right away. So, in my opinion, gender differences are stronger in the US than in Northern Europe ... which is why I'm always surprised about Russians remarks about feminism in America.

Ack, I'm giving away all my material for my March 8th post!

Posted by: Kevin at March 1, 2005 06:43 PM